OK, I realize these are fightin' words in many circles, but I'm going to utter them anyway.
One kid is easy! Well, if it makes you feel better, I'll revise them immediately.
One kid is much much much easier than two.You know the kids go to school separately, so each morning I have only one with me from 9-1. We have so much fun just doing things one-on-one. Last week, I went with each child to the Children's Museum and to the local play place for kids under age 5. Carl's day even included a free hour of swimming at the city pool if you showed your play place receipt for the day! So, 4 mornings last week I trekked (truk?) downtown with someone, but it was fun! And yes, I was in public for the second time this season in only a swimsuit.
Since I usually seem to have Gretchen stories, I'll share my morning out with Carl here today. First, we headed to Barnes & Noble to buy a gift card for Claire's birthday (Happy 10th tomorrow, Claire!). They open at 9 and we got there about 5 after. As soon as we walked through the door, Carl turned to me and said, "I want trains." We haven't been there in so long, but if there is a train table around, Carl will remember it! No one can turn down Carl. We headed back to the kids' area. We played trains and sang "Down By The Station" and "I've Been Working on the Railroad" and just had fun. Then, he wandered off, but quickly spotted a Dr Suess display. So, we got to read
Green Eggs and Ham... and then he was back to the trains! We finally left there and quickly stopped into Michael's to pick up some cross stitch cloth. Now, if the train memory wasn't impressive enough - we walked into Michael's and he said, "I want Little White Woof." That is the name of his (brown) stuffed dog with magnets in his feet that we bought there months ago!
So, he was starting to get a touch fussy when we got back in the car, but I didn't say where we were headed. When we approached the turn, he said, "I go to the playground." Yes, it was that corner. I asked him if he would like to go to the playground with just Mommy and he thought it over, "Uhmmm... yes!" (I am trying to eliminate that "uhmmm" that he currently does becasue it sounds uneducated.) I even brought sneakers instead of having him wear his Birkenstocks. I know he runs like crazy, and sandals just aren't going to cut it for him! He had a ball playing and chasing the bigger kids and just climbing every ladder and high slide they have. Then, and I am not making this up, he said, "Rock and roll to the car?" I had him confirm his decision to go several times and yes, he wanted to go to the car. So, I told him I had a cup of water for him and he able sprinted to the car. I know the other mothers were jealous that my kid was not kicking and screaming as I removed him from the playground!
The fun didn't end there. We did our shopping at Walmart which isn't super exciting for adults, but for a kid who likes riding in the back of the cart and seeing the lobsters, it's a fun time! A quick drive-thru trip got us a couple chicken sandwiches and a hamburger and we headed home. I even let him watch his current favorite show during lunch (usually a no-no) Imagination Movers, Bad Hair Day episode. When that was over, it was time to go get Gretchen.
Now, I know that today wasn't highly educational, but Carl and I had a ball. Don't get me wrong, for those of you who don't know the fun of having two kids the same age - twin playtime is a lot of fun, too, but one-on-one playtime is a blast, too!